August 9, 2009
datn:

It’s tough being bisexual on OKCupid.

datn:

It’s tough being bisexual on OKCupid.
April 19, 2009
My mother is on Match.com,” Melvin said. “So there’s no way I’m going to be on there.
April 7, 2009

Unfriend Zone

dearoldlove:

I’ll always stay in your social networks, so I know who to exclude from mine.
Humans may be advertising themselves more efficiently. But they still have the same small circles of intimacy as ever.
March 28, 2009
Facebook is trying to teach members to use privacy settings to manage their network so they can speak discreetly only to certain friends, like co-workers or family members, as opposed to other “friends” like bosses or professional colleagues. But most Facebook users haven’t taken advantage of the privacy settings; the company estimates that only 20 percent of its members use them.

Facebook at 5 - Is It Growing Up Too Fast? - NYTimes.com

via datainsightsideas, who says: Yes, because enabling privacy settings turn into more of a “headache” to the common user (particularly the exploding 35+ demographic) when they are hidden behind a deceptively simple (yet, really complex) UI.

March 3, 2009
Our focus should not be on emerging technologies but on emerging cultural practices.
Henry Jenkins, Professor of Comparative Media, MIT, and author of Convergence Culture: When Old and New Media Collide From a slideshow on Gerd Leonhard’s Music 2.0 site (via, via anthropophagous)
February 13, 2009

blogs (via twenetysomethingtales)

  • Customs Officer at airport: (examining passport) What is the purpose of your visit?
  • twentysomethingtales: Pleasure
  • Officer: And what will you be doing here?
  • TST: I'm visiting my [boyfriend]
  • (Officer eyes [TST] suspiciously)
  • Officer: And...you live in America? And he lives here?
  • TST: Yes
  • Officer: How did you meet
  • TST: ....um...online.
  • Officer: Online?
  • TST: Yeah, well he reads my blog...I read his...
  • Officer: (laughing) Blog? I've got to start reading those blogs.
February 5, 2009

Gmauled

dearoldlove:

I kept you in my life long enough to get dumped by email twice.
  • Matt: so, on a panel at SXSW, huh? what about?
  • Nick: "sex lives of the microfamous"
  • Matt: so, "who's screwing who among the who's not quite who"?
February 2, 2009
Perhaps a person armed with technology could keep track of 10,000 people, but how many of those relationships actually matter?